There are common misconceptions about many things in society, often when individuals from one particular social group or demographic make assumptions about another. Two subjects guaranteed to throw up a bunch of delusions are 1) how people from a different generation behave and 2) dating habits. When you combine those topics, the possibilities for misunderstandings increase dramatically. So here are some truths about senior dating which it would be worthwhile paying attention to.
Age is just a number
One of the most obvious aspects of senior citizens is the fact it is nonsensical bunching them into some sort of homogenous mass. Who’s to say what age someone becomes a senior? In their 60s? 70s? Older? Where is the remotest piece of evidence people who may be termed ‘mature’ somehow behave differently? It is important to accept people are people regardless of what their date of birth might happen to be.
Physical appearance is not the number one attraction
Younger people are often be obsessed by superficiality, an attitude which is reflected in airbrushed magazine photographs or glamorous movie stars. One of the most positive aspects of so-called seniors is they have reached a stage in life where looks are far less important than character and personality. Have you ever dipped into one of those reality TV shows? They may be inhabited by glamorous young individuals, but they often possess the personality of a wardrobe.
There are more exciting things to do than get drunk
While youngsters often gravitate to bars and nightclubs, especially when seeking dates, older individuals appreciate the finer things in life. When senior citizens are arranging a date, it is far more likely to be over a candlelit meal in a superb restaurant, or an outing to a theatre or concert venue. They’ll still enjoy their wonderful night out, but there’ll be no sore heads in the morning.
Not everyone is obsessed with tying the knot
With a lot of young people, the whole point of dating is searching for the elusive ‘one’ who could turn out to be their soulmate. When considering a new partner, there will inevitably be questions about whether or not this person might be a long-term proposition. For the more mature individual, such concerns are rarely given much thought. In a lot of cases, people have already have been through marriage, divorce, and families and are looking for fun. This makes for a far more relaxed environment.
The key to contentment is an open mind
Youngsters can be slaves to fashion trends and cultural mores. Once people have reached a certain level of maturity, they are more likely to be open-minded about getting together romantically. Issues like age gaps, religious beliefs or political stances will become far less relevant compared to simply connecting on an emotional level.
There is more than one type of companion
When youngsters are looking for a relationship, they might have a pre-conceived notion of the type of person they are searching for, one which may well be fairly stereotypical. A primary driver for what they are searching for will be someone to be intimate with. Older citizens will be flexible. In fact, they might have different types of companion, romantic or platonic, depending on specific activities.
Online or offline, seniors have an active interest
When it comes to matchmaking, senior citizens will have just as much zest and enthusiasm as people a generation or more their junior. Dating sites are very user-friendly these days, offering an incredible array of individuals to connect with. Astute seniors are making the most of the opportunities offering by getting acquainted in this way.