If you’re like most sugar daddies out there, it’s a major understatement to say you work day and night. After all, success like yours isn’t born in a vacuum. You’ve got a professional life, a personal brand, and a lifestyle to maintain. But you’re still only human, so maintaining some level of work-life balance is essential, especially when it comes to finding the right sugar baby on Sugar Search.
Believe it or not, you can have life both ways, and you deserve that. The point of working so hard in the first place is to be able to afford a life worth living, so it’s essential to make sure you’re enjoying yours enough. Here’s how to go about things.
Decide what you really want and need
The busier you are, the less wasteful you want to be with your precious free time. But dating can be time-consuming, almost by definition, so it helps to know what you’re really looking for right from the start. For example, are you looking for a forever connection or just something casual for now?
Whatever you decide your needs might be right now, you’ll find that the sugar bowl includes young, beautiful sugar babies who are looking for the same thing you are. So be super upfront about what you want right now, as well as what you can offer a sugar baby. You’ll make better matches and get more out of the dating process in general.
Do the “getting to know you” part online
If you’re not already exploring the wonderful world of online sugaring, then it’s officially time to start, even if you’re not personally that tech-savvy or keen on the idea of meeting someone online. It’s a complete game-changer, especially for aspiring sugar daddies who genuinely are too busy or overexerted to do much offline dating.
Online sugaring not only opens up your options as far as the potential sugar babies you can meet, but it also takes the guesswork out of vetting your options before you spend precious time, effort, and resources on a meetup. You can explore each possibility via chat, phone, email, or video call at your leisure, the better to determine which sugar babies you see a potential connection with.
Pull out all the stops on your dates
A smart sugar daddy will only be scheduling actual offline dates with sugar babies he’s truly clicked with already. That said, the focus of those dates will naturally be seeing if that twinkle you felt between you online actually carries over in person. Give it the best possible chance to make an appearance by putting some effort into your sugar dates.
Successful sugar daters treat their dates with the same seriousness they would anything else in their lives. They don’t cancel, flake, or reschedule unless it’s a legitimate emergency. They don’t multitask or rush through dates, either. They’re 100 percent focused on interacting with this amazing sugar baby who’s giving them her time.
Be honest about your availability
When you’re a busy man who’s likely to be an equally busy sugar daddy if he ever found himself dating someone, it’s important to pick someone who’s OK with that. But thankfully, most sugar babies expect that from their sugar daddies, so there’s really no reason not to be 100 percent honest about your scheduling obligations.
Don’t simply say whatever you think will get a woman you’re really interested in to agree to an arrangement with you, hoping she’ll get used to the idea later. Let her know straight away what your actual availability is so she knows what she’s getting into upfront. Most sugar babies are fine with limited availability unless the guy wasn’t honest with her about it from the get-go.
Revisit your priorities if something gets serious
If you’re only interested in casual, open, or no-strings-attached connections, you probably don’t need to worry much about what sacrifices you should be making for your beautiful sugar baby at any point. But if you’re looking for a long-term partner or find yourself involved in a situation that’s getting serious, you’ll want to be prepared to invite more balance into your life.
That’s the time to start creating more room for your personal life in your schedule. No, you shouldn’t give up your work life entirely or give up on your professional plans for your own future. But you will need to make some sacrifices here and there in order for your relationship to keep evolving.
Being a busy man doesn’t have to mean giving up on the idea of having a love life, especially if you want a sugar baby. But you will need to do the work necessary to make sure your future connections and relationships fit into your lifestyle and plans for your future. You’ll be glad you did.