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It is ever easy: Tips to help you care for your aging parents

Aging parents can have a huge impact on our lives both in a positive and negative fashion. The ability to care for one’s self for some people is something that follows them for life. For others at a certain age constant supervision or daily help is required in order to live decently. Caring for aging parents can be difficult for a variety of reasons whether it is seeing your parents weak or financially due to your parents not managing their money wisely. The most important thing that you can have in this situation is some kind of plan. The following are tips that will help alleviate some of the stresses that come with caring for your elderly parents.

Sit Down With Your Siblings

The need to set an agenda and write out a plan for aging parents is imperative. Siblings are going to have to share the responsibility so allowing the children to decide who takes care of what could not be more important. This will help avoid fights later on as a plan has already been created. Do not simply push all of the tasks to complete to the youngest sibling by default. Those people with their children out of the home can probably take on a bit more than a sibling with 5 kids still living a home.

Downsizing Their Home

The last thing that many people think about is having to financially support their parents. Downsizing the home is important as it will help reduce taxes as well as a small home or condo is much easier to maintain. Family homes hold quite a bit of nostalgia so this could be difficult to convince your parents to sell. Sit down and see how much money can be saved annually by looking into different housing options. Selling a home too large can allow a parent to retire years early or increase quality of life.

A Full-Time Babysitter

The best thing about having parents come stay with you from time to time is that of having a full-time babysitter. This can allow you to get much more done as far as errands go. The idea of having to pay a babysitter can be enough to keep young parents at home instead of having a nice night out together. We all need breaks whether it is from work or parenting. The ability for your children to build a great relationship with their grandparent is something they will remember for the rest of their lives.

Look Into Care Options

Knowing that your parents are going to have the best care possible is going to take research. Look into programs like the CDPAP or the Consumer Directed Personal Assistance Program in New York. This allows family members or chosen caretakers to be paid to care for the elderly or those not capable of caring for themselves. The family member can take care of their parent without having to worry about their own financial hardships from missing work. While not all states have programs like this, there are plenty that have programs that can be a huge help. The nursing home or assisted living facility should not be the first option for your parents with these types of programs available.

As you can see it is never going to be easy to care for aging parents but it is more than manageable. Your parents should be comfortable in their later years, help figure it out with them!


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